Lot of marriages fail and break these days. And reason?? Incompatibility.
It’s just one word but has fifty shades in itself. People feel they are incompatible and hence cannot live together or rather cannot live happily together. But are we not supposed to be individuals first before being anyone else or being a relation to someone??
And are there two people who are compatible through and through? I don’t think so. Even if they like same things, they will like in a different way. If they have same destination, they would tread different paths to reach there. If they hate something, the underlying reasons could be entirely different. Like fingerprints, no two humans can be same ever. So why do we assume we need to be compatible to be happily married?
Life would be so much easier if we could enjoy the differences and respect others for their likes and choices. It really is not so difficult to understand why someone likes something , especially when there is love existing between two people.
And from personal experience, I can say that it’s easier and fruitful to accept the so called incompatibility and enjoy the differences. If you try to change yourself or someone else, it is never going to work. It might make the things worse in the long run as it adds a burden on you and the other person and kills your individuality..